"Self-Esteem Is Your Key To Greater Success In Life….. "

Connecting With Your Own Self, The Source Of All Your Life Energy is In Front of You Now!

Fort Lauderdale,

Thursday, March 11th

 Dear friend,  

Sometimes in life you are blocked by unseen forces….and as much as you strive to go forward, each day is an uphill battle! Nothing comes naturally, easily, and you feel constantly paying new dues in every field of endeavor!

Then doubt installs in your mind, and for the simplest action you need to convince yourself that yes, you can do this with the minimum risk, that you have the skills, knowledge and stamina to get it finished. And when you finally get your spirits together you find yourself so drained off all energy to actually do something about it..

Until one day you realize the root of problem: If you had trust in yourself, you would not be doubting to the point of exhaustion!, you will feel that inner force irradiating from you, making , obstacles to disappear and people willingly join to your efforts to make your dreams come true.

Wouldn't it be perfect if you could begin reinforcing the image that you have of yourself, stop pretending that other people know what it is best for you, and begin unleashing the inner force of your true self?

Are You a Victim of Wrong Mental Programming?

I don't know about you, but I grew up in a household where the main tool to keep you obedient was discouraging your ideas, your creativity and in short, clipping your wings so you would not leave the family nest….daring to be different. Their comments were always negative, discouraging, and off putting. Like saying “who do you think you are?” , when you wanted to be a dancer. Or "You will never go to the university", when you shared your dream of being a doctor.

And as any child that looks into grown ups for guidance the belief that you where not supposed to dare for this, that you where not good enough for that, that you did not deserved love and many others limitations took seed into your mind, and stated to grow, and after a while you stopped questioning them and accepted them as the "Truth"...

The results are now devastating:

You Don't Trust Your Innate Sense of What You Can Achieve!

The good news is that, you can do as much of what you dream to, given time, necessary resources and dedication. But you will have to cut off all those limiting thoughts from your mind, and put in their place a new set that reflects more on you, and your true potential.

Ready for a short test, of your level of self-esteem?

Self-assertion:

  1. I let others decide how they see me, it is easier
  2. I go along with other's decisions, to keep the peace
  3. I'm considered as very strong, and that leaves me too lonely.
  4. I express myself as I want always, and people listen to me.

Communication

  1. I keep to myself, fearing to offend or to be criticized
  2. I act afterwards with resentment
  3. I'm only sure if I go along with others' opinions
  4. I can express what my needs are, anytime

Negotiation

  1. It is better to avoid negotiations at all
  2. I wait until the other person gives me my own share
  3. I negotiate from a position of power over others
  4. I can share the power and find shared solutions

If you scored less than 10, then self esteem booster is we what you need..

Probably, you are thinking that this test was so easy….the choices are clear: they are between making your own, personal choices, or letting others rule your life, and making those wishes and needs respected, without breaking relationships.

Your Low Self Confidence is Damaging For Your Relationship

Are you supporting a “nice person” image of yourself only to avoid all confrontations?

As a child you always wanted to be accepted, and you learned some tricks that gave results for a while. Creating a strong image of a Nice Person, helped you to feel more accepted by our parents, siblings, and friends. This nice person will always mold into the group, accepting the ruling of others without a chance to include your own needs into their agenda. By doing that your own needs had became second priority, and sometimes they will be have to suppressed completely.

This may be what others expect from you, but you paid a very high price tag….after many years of doing the "nice person act" you will find your energy is so low, that you feel so empty, devoid of all motivation, and sense of purpose.

It is at this moment that you realize the need to choose between pleasing others or fulfilling your own needs, claiming what you really are, what you really want ..

But this is only possible if you learn how to assert and grow your own identity: Too strong self-assertion will provoke powerful reactions that can be too stressing or even damaging, and too weak a self-esteem will leave you very vulnerable to whatever others need or want, sending you to the starting point.

 

"BOOSTING YOUR SELF-ESTEEM"

This ebook was created to help you gradually build self-esteem, so you will :

  • Feel always adequate;
  • Accept and celebrate your own merits and accomplishments
  • Feel always secure and with a sense of direction.
  • Stop emotional abuse and mistreat just at the beginning
  • Attract the happiness you dream of
  • Be able to Negotiate with confidence any difficult issue.
  • Communicate your views with ease, even in stressful situations

I was always very conscious of having a problem. I was born with a club foot, and even when it got fixed very early, it determined my whole existence…I was always withdrawn, and waiting for others to accept and respect me. All this time, it was as if I had to apologize for being alive! It was such a loss of opportunities, because I kept postponing my own ideas, out of shame.

Now I realize that it is a self confidence problem; nobody else but me can heal it. My physical problem doesn't matter any longer, it's now long gone; it was always my own self image that needed a lot of work!

If I tell the world that I'm deserving of respect, attention and love, then it happens to me that people respect and love me. It is all in my own attitude, and this is the last thing my family told me! Isn't it a pity that so many people are in the same boat like me?

Mary Ann Taylor, Key West

Just think how liberated will you feel when you finally reconnect with your inner energy, when your own energy will be the driving force that will make your dreams true!

Curious about how to address this problem?

Here is a small example from the eBook:

A Positive Outlook for a Positive Life

(Pages 5-6)

Our outlook and attitude on life in general plays a huge part in how happy we are in life and how successful we become. Someone who thinks positively about everything will be more relaxed, calm and smile more than someone who is always looking for the negative side, and accepts naturally that things ought to go wrong.

Not only does how you think and feel affect you, it also affects those around you, in short our mood affects our lives. Developing and keeping a positive outlook is essential if you wish to lead a positive and fulfilling life.

There are many ways in which you can develop a more positive outlook and begin to change how you think and feel about many situations that you encounter in day-to-day living. Changing your attitude and not slipping back into negative thinking will take time but eventually the new outlook will become second nature. The five main key points to remember when changing your outlook are:

1) Turn your way of thinking into positive thinking and practice on a daily basis thinking positively. You should set your mind on completing one task at a time and think only of a positive outcome for it and how good you will feel when you have completed the task. Never give in to doubt and let yourself believe that you have taken too much on and just keep going.

2) Don't let your conversations turn negative, when in a conversation it is easy to let others discourage you, particularly if they themselves have a negative outlook on life. Don't be tempted to fall back into your old ways, but turn negative talk into positive and look for the good in everything and any situation.

3) Look for the positive in those around you and point it out, this way you can encourage a positive attitude all around you.

4)Whatever you are doing in your day-to-day life, always look for the good in it, although it might be a boring task which you usually hate doing and one which leaves you feeling negatively, try to find something about it that turns it into a more positive situation.

5) Never let yourself become distracted or hoodwinked into going back to negativity, it takes time to change the way you feel and think and if you have been down on yourself and the world for a long time then your new outlook will take a while to register and stay around.

You will find over time that many areas of your life can be changed just by changing your outlook from a negative one to a more positive. You will find that your self-esteem improves, you become more popular, you feel happier and are more confident than before, you are able to tackle the tasks you once hated without them causing you stress and anxiety and your relationships improve. These are just a few of the areas where you can self-improve and gain a more positive outlook and thus lead a more positive life.

This short piece is enough to give you an idea of how you can improve your self-confidence in a realistic way. Discover how to definitively erase negative traits and replace them with positively energizing ones. See your own life in a completely new light!

 

Self Esteem Booster Index

Page
Chapter 1: Be Optimistic for a Happier Life
A Positive Outlook for a Positive Life
4
Know your self-worth
5
The benefits of using positive self-talk
8
How positive affirmations can change your life
10
Chapter II: It’s All in Our Mind
Focusing the mind on the positive
15
The sky is your limit
17
How to develop your creative side
18
Creativity Tips and Resources
20
Listen to your inner thoughts
22
Mental imagery works
24
Taking care of your mental health
26
Chapter III: Overcoming Negative Thinking
Dispelling fears for a more positive outlook
29
Overcoming dissociation
31
Overcoming Doubt
33
Overcoming Feelings of Helplessness
35
Overcoming Inner Conflicts
37
Overcoming Intimidation
38
Overcoming the need to be in control
40
Overcoming Trauma
43
Chapter IV: Becoming an Optimistic Individual and Achieve Goals in Life
Developing your self-image
45
Change the Shape of Your Self-Image
47
How keeping a journal can help you succeed
48
Develop your intuition
49
Start Early To Combat Low Self Esteem
51
Stop underestimating your worth
53
Developing your full potential
57
Boost your Self-Esteem by Running
57
How to Unearth Your Hidden Strengths
59
How NLP Can Help You
61
De-cluttering for success
67

   

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Today Friday, March 12th

$17

Why $17?

I'm only charging $17 for this ebook, and not giving this ebook away, for 3 reasons.

  1. One of the problems of low self esteem, is the feeling that you are helpless to change your situation. By putting such a low price, I'm hoping that you will grab this opportunity and use it to transform your life.
     
  2. Anyone who's not serious enough about boosting their self esteem to invest $17 into this ebook isn't going to take the time to use the methods laid out in the ebook anyway.
     
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So if you're serious about boosting your Self Esteem and Self Confidence, click the "Buy Now" button below. If you need to justify the expense, skip going to McDonald's for dinner once this week and it's paid for.

Sincerely,


Neil Warner .
Creative Conflict Resolutions
3415 Galt OCean Drive
Fort Lauderdale
33308 Florida
Phone: +1 (954) 607-2083
USA

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